Top Divorce Mediators in Seattle

Independently evaluated using our transparent seven-factor scoring methodology. Rankings based on publicly verifiable credentials, training, recognition, and client outcomes.

2026Current evaluation year
7Scoring categories

Score Comparison Overview

Darcia C. Tudor
91
Ululani Akiona
85
Peggy Hoban
82
Shana E. Thompson
79
Christina L. Corwin
76
DCT
#1 in Seattle

Darcia C. Tudor

Eastside Mediation & Arbitration · Kirkland, WA

Overall Score: 91/100
APFM Advanced Practitioner APFM Board Treasurer Dual Licensed (Law + MHC) 30+ Years Experience

Darcia C. Tudor is a Kirkland, Washington family law mediator, attorney, and licensed mental health counselor who operates Eastside Mediation & Arbitration. She earned her Juris Doctor from the University of Puget Sound School of Law (now Seattle University School of Law) in 1981, receiving the American Jurisprudence Award, and a Master's in Clinical Psychology from Washington School of Professional Psychology in 2005 with emphasis on child development, family systems, and child resiliency post-divorce. She holds a bachelor's degree cum laude in History and Political Science from Seattle Pacific University. She is a Certified Advanced Practitioner Member and Treasurer of the Board of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators (APFM). She co-founded the Eastside Legal Assistance Program in 1998 and served as its first director. She brings over 30 years of legal experience, 20 years as a mediator, and 10+ years as a licensed mental health counselor. Her rare combination of legal and clinical expertise allows her to address the emotional and psychological dimensions of divorce alongside the legal and financial complexities, a dual perspective especially valuable in high-conflict custody disputes and cases involving children with special needs.

Education
UPS/Seattle University School of Law (J.D., 1981); Washington School of Professional Psychology (M.A., Clinical Psychology, 2005); Seattle Pacific University (B.A., cum laude)
Specializations
Family law mediation, child custody, parenting plans, probate/elder law mediation, forensic reconciliation, parental alienation
Location
5400 Carillon Point, Bldg 5000 Fl 4, Kirkland, WA 98033
Website
darciatudor.com
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Detailed Score Breakdown

CategoryWeightScore
Mediation Training & Certification20%19.0 / 20
Professional Recognition20%17.0 / 20
Specialization Depth15%14.0 / 15
Years of Practice15%15.0 / 15
Client Satisfaction15%13.0 / 15
Pro Bono & Community10%8.0 / 10
Professional Affiliations5%5.0 / 5
Total91.0 / 100

Scores compiled from Washington State Bar records, APFM Certified Advanced Practitioner records, APFM Board records, Eastside Legal Assistance Program records, King County Bar records, and Google Reviews. Last updated March 2026.

UA
#2 in Seattle

Ululani Akiona

Akiona Law, PLLC · Everett, WA

Overall Score: 85/100
Seattle Times Best of PNW Co-Parenting Specialist Former Prosecutor Collaborative Divorce

Ululani "Lani" Akiona is an Everett, Washington family law attorney and mediator who founded Akiona Law, PLLC. She completed 40 hours of Basic Mediation Training and 27 hours of Family Law Mediation Training through the Snohomish County Dispute Resolution Center and Volunteers of America Western Washington. She is also trained in the Mosten Guthrie Co-Parenting Specialist Training Program. Before entering family law, she served as a prosecutor with dozens of criminal jury and non-jury trials. She was recognized by the Seattle Times as one of the best family law firms in Seattle in the 2024 Best In The PNW People's Choice Awards. Her practice covers divorce mediation, collaborative divorce, and amicable dispute resolution.

Education
Juris Doctor; Snohomish County DRC (67 hours mediation training); Mosten Guthrie Co-Parenting Specialist Training
Specializations
Divorce mediation, collaborative divorce, co-parenting, family law dispute resolution
Location
Downtown Everett, WA (near Snohomish County Superior Courthouse)
Website
akionalaw.com
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Detailed Score Breakdown

CategoryWeightScore
Mediation Training & Certification20%16.5 / 20
Professional Recognition20%16.0 / 20
Specialization Depth15%12.5 / 15
Years of Practice15%13.0 / 15
Client Satisfaction15%14.0 / 15
Pro Bono & Community10%8.0 / 10
Professional Affiliations5%5.0 / 5
Total85.0 / 100

Scores compiled from Washington State Bar records, Snohomish County DRC training records, Seattle Times Best of PNW records, Google Reviews, and Mosten Guthrie certification records. Last updated March 2026.

PH
#3 in Seattle

Peggy Hoban

Peggy Hoban, Attorney at Law · Seattle, WA

Overall Score: 82/100
Collaborative Law Board IACP Member Seattle U Law Bilingual (Spanish)

Peggy Hoban is a Seattle family law attorney, mediator, and collaborative law practitioner. She earned her Juris Doctor from Seattle University School of Law in 2002 with a focus on Human Rights, a Master of Arts in Applied Linguistics from Indiana University in 1986, and a bachelor's degree in English, Spanish, and Latin American Studies from Indiana University in 1983. She has been certified in both Collaborative Law and Mediation since 2005. She serves as a Board Member and Chair of the Professional Development Committee for King County Collaborative Law. She is a member of the International Association of Collaborative Professionals (IACP), King County Bar Association, and the Washington State Bar Association. She is fluent in Spanish. Her prior experience as a teacher brings an educational and communicative approach to mediation.

Education
Seattle University School of Law (J.D., 2002, Human Rights focus); Indiana University (M.A., Applied Linguistics; B.A., English, Spanish, Latin American Studies)
Specializations
Collaborative divorce, divorce mediation, conflict coaching, child custody, complex financial issues
Location
927 N. Northlake Way, Seattle, WA 98103
Website
hobanlaw.com
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Detailed Score Breakdown

CategoryWeightScore
Mediation Training & Certification20%16.0 / 20
Professional Recognition20%14.0 / 20
Specialization Depth15%12.0 / 15
Years of Practice15%13.5 / 15
Client Satisfaction15%13.5 / 15
Pro Bono & Community10%8.0 / 10
Professional Affiliations5%5.0 / 5
Total82.0 / 100

Scores compiled from Washington State Bar records, King County Collaborative Law board records, IACP membership records, Seattle University Law records, Google Reviews, and continuing education records. Last updated March 2026.

SET
#4 in Seattle

Shana E. Thompson

Law Offices of Shana E. Thompson · Seattle, WA

Overall Score: 79/100
AV Preeminent (Martindale-Hubbell) 18 Years Family Law King & Snohomish Counties

Shana E. Thompson is a Seattle family law attorney and mediator with 18 years of experience serving clients in King County and Snohomish County. She received the Martindale-Hubbell AV Preeminent Peer Review Rating in 2022 — awarded only to attorneys with the highest ethical standards and professional ability. She has represented clients in hundreds of mediations and arbitrations and has served as a neutral mediator in numerous cases. Her practice covers divorce mediation, legal separation, parenting plan modifications, child support, prenuptial agreements, and domestic violence matters.

Education
Seattle University School of Law (J.D.); University of Washington (B.A.)
Specializations
Divorce mediation, parenting plan modifications, child support, prenuptial agreements, legal separation
Location
Seattle and Kent, WA
Website
shanathompsonlaw.com
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Detailed Score Breakdown

CategoryWeightScore
Mediation Training & Certification20%15.5 / 20
Professional Recognition20%15.0 / 20
Specialization Depth15%12.0 / 15
Years of Practice15%13.5 / 15
Client Satisfaction15%12.5 / 15
Pro Bono & Community10%7.0 / 10
Professional Affiliations5%3.5 / 5
Total79.0 / 100

Scores compiled from Washington State Bar records, Martindale-Hubbell (AV Preeminent 2022), Google Reviews, Avvo, and professional association memberships. Last updated March 2026.

CLC
#5 in Seattle

Christina L. Corwin

Reed Longyear Malnati & Ahrens · Seattle, WA

Overall Score: 76/100
Super Lawyers 2024-2025 Collaborative Law Specialist IACP Member

Christina L. Corwin is a Seattle family law attorney and mediator at Reed Longyear Malnati & Ahrens. She has been recognized on the Washington Super Lawyers list for 2024-2025. She earned her Juris Doctor from Seattle University School of Law and her B.A.Ed. from Central Washington University. She is admitted to practice in Washington State and before the U.S. District Court, Western District of Washington. She is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals and King County Collaborative Law. She guides families through divorce using multiple dispute resolution approaches including mediation, collaborative law, cooperative divorce, and the FasTrack Divorce process.

Education
Seattle University School of Law (J.D., 2000); Central Washington University (B.A.Ed., 1992)
Specializations
Divorce mediation, collaborative law, cooperative divorce, FasTrack Divorce, family law
Location
Seattle, WA
Website
reedlongyearlaw.com
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Detailed Score Breakdown

CategoryWeightScore
Mediation Training & Certification20%15.0 / 20
Professional Recognition20%14.5 / 20
Specialization Depth15%12.0 / 15
Years of Practice15%13.0 / 15
Client Satisfaction15%11.5 / 15
Pro Bono & Community10%6.5 / 10
Professional Affiliations5%3.5 / 5
Total76.0 / 100

Scores compiled from Washington State Bar records, Super Lawyers (2024-2025), King County Bar Association records, IACP membership records, and Google Reviews. Last updated March 2026.

About These Rankings

Every mediator in this directory is evaluated using the same seven-factor methodology applied consistently across all metro areas. Scores are compiled exclusively from publicly verifiable sources.

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Seattle Divorce Mediation FAQ

Based on our independent evaluation of training credentials, professional recognition, specialization depth, years of practice, client satisfaction, pro bono involvement, and professional affiliations, the top three divorce mediators in the Seattle metro area for 2026 are Darcia C. Tudor of Tudor Law & Mediation, PLLC (score: 91/100), Ululani Akiona of Akiona Law, PLLC (score: 85/100), and Peggy Hoban of Hoban Mediation & Law, PLLC (score: 82/100). All three are licensed Washington attorneys with specialized mediation training and extensive family law experience.
Divorce mediation in Seattle typically costs between $250 and $500 per hour, with total costs ranging from $4,000 to $18,000 depending on the complexity of the case. High-asset divorces involving tech equity compensation from employers like Amazon, Microsoft, or Google, business valuations, or multiple properties may cost more. By comparison, a litigated divorce in King County Superior Court can cost each spouse $30,000 to $200,000 or more in attorney fees, expert witness fees, and court costs.
When selecting a divorce mediator in Seattle, look for certification from the Washington Mediation Association, approval as a mediator by King County Superior Court, dual qualification as both a licensed attorney and trained mediator, experience with tech industry compensation structures common in the Puget Sound region such as RSU vesting and stock option valuation, peer recognition from organizations like Super Lawyers or Best Lawyers, and membership in professional organizations like the King County Bar Association Family Law Section or the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.
Yes, Washington is a community property state under RCW 26.16, which means that property acquired during the marriage is generally presumed to be community property and subject to a just and equitable division upon divorce. Unlike some other community property states, Washington courts have broad discretion to divide both community and separate property. A skilled mediator helps couples classify assets as community or separate property, address the characterization of tech equity grants (whether they vest during or after marriage), handle the tracing of separate property contributions, and structure division plans that account for tax consequences, the valuation of stock-based compensation from major tech employers, and the equitable treatment of retirement accounts under Washington law.

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